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July of 1999 -
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As my neurosurgeon, who had just quit his practice six hours
earlier, made the unexpected declaration about his decision,
a wave of uncertainty washed over. His faith in my character
felt reassuring, yet I sensed the urgency in his voice as he
recommended a renowned colleague for my upcoming surgery.
Ignoring his insistence on immediate action, I
delayed my treatment for a few days, resulting in a
fortunate yet precarious outcome when the new surgeon
successfully performed the operation. However, unbeknownst
to me, a lurking staph infection began to take hold, casting
a shadow over my recovery and leading me into an unexpected
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Staph Infection |
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Upon returning home from the hospital, a week later, I found
myself gripped by a level of pain I had never experienced
before. My hometown hospital conducted an incorrect MRI,
prompting an ambulance transfer to my operative surgeon's
facility.
Upon reviewing the new MRI, my surgeon
exploded with frustration where he ordered another MRI. As
days dragged on, I endured excruciating agony that left even
IV Morphine ineffective; only IV Demerol provided any
relief. However, just as hope surged with a proposed
treatment plan involving Botox injections in my spine, it
was thwarted by poltical interests that complicated my
recovery and left me in a state of uncertainty. | |
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Looks Me In The Eyes, Again |
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Weeks later, my
personal physician sat across from me, his gaze intense and serious as
he urged me to pay close attention to what he had to say. He revealed
that my staph infection was not a natural occurrence but rather had been
deliberately introduced, escalating the severity of my situation. The
revelation hit hard as he explained that the infection had inflamed one
of my internal organs to three times its normal size in mere days, a
condition that had to have been excruciatingly painful. He marveled at
my survival, underscoring that this dire twist was entirely beyond my
surgeon's control, leaving me grappling with the unsettling implications
amidst my ongoing struggles. |
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Hippocratic
Oath |
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Bell Atlantic's and Verizon's out-of-state corporate medical contractor,
CORE, reached out to me. I was informed about a scheduled second
opinion; however, they made it clear that finding a doctor willing to
"override" my current surgeon had proven challenging. The only option
was a specialist in a remote West Virginia town, which the contractor
claimed was too far for me to travel in my condition and urged me to
refuse the appointment. A contractor's infamous reputation for being
ruthless was telling me to refuse? However, I felt a deep commitment to
the Hippocratic Oath, so I accepted the procedures and scheduled the
visit. |
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Italy, Spain,
Venezuela & India |
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As his nurse pleaded with him to cease his
harsh remarks, the so-called "overriding
orthopedic physician" launched into an unrestrained criticism
targeting both my primary care physician and the operating surgeon
involved in my care. His inquiries about my ethnicity and my doctors'
countries of origin—Italy, Spain, Venezuela, and India—further
underscored a disturbing bias, as he seemed to use this information to
discredit my surgeon, dismissing his youth and experience.
In a
dramatic turn, he out rightly contradicted my treating surgeon, leaving
the physician helpless and resigned as he could only wash his hands of
the situation. I was stranded in a room with a man who wielded authority
where we were left alone to navigate the unsettling aftermath. |
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Tough Times Don't Last Tough People Do | |
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After multiple visits to various facilities where my
post-operative condition was consistently deemed irreversible, I found myself
reflecting on a metaphor from Johns Hopkins, which described my situation as a
"charred forest after a forest fire," posing the daunting question of where to
even begin rebuilding.
Amidst this desolation, I stumbled upon the
book "Tough Times Don't Last, Tough People Do," which ignited a
spark of resilience within me, inspiring me to seek new
possibilities. With renewed determination, my wife and I discovered
a highly regarded orthopedic therapist in Pennsylvania, who
dedicated significant time to studying my condition, assessing my
movements, and reviewing my medical history, offering a glimmer of
hope for my next steps.
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Politicized |
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The orthopedic therapist diagnosed my condition as a result
of chronically shrunken and shortened deep shoulder-to-trunk
muscles, which had led to an alarming pull of my right pelvis and
shoulder together. He explained that the treatment plan proposed by
my then-operative surgeon would have been effective if implemented
at the acute onset of my issues.
He attributed my current
compromised state to the earlier interference from the
"overriding orthopedic surgeon",
highlighting how my health had become politicized in the process.
This realization echoed warnings that CORE had tried to communicate
to me many months prior, a stark reminder of how external influences
had complicated my recovery journey. |
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I Mean, Like Hercules Better | |
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The orthopedic therapist devised a comprehensive
plan that included a team of specialists and months of intense
rehabilitation, which I approached with determination and a focus on
the home exercises he provided. Remarkably, I achieved a Herculean
physical recovery, ultimately regaining a fitness level better than
I had in my early 20s.
My primary care physician was
astounded by this transformation, even dubbing me a "Documented
Medical Miracle" for successfully overturning the grim diagnoses
given by some of the world's most prestigious institutions. As word
of my recovery spread, I became a beacon of hope in my community,
leaving some stunned and speechless, with my name frequently
mentioned during their visits as a testament to what is possible
against overwhelming odds.
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Ballroom Dancing |
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We embarked on a vibrant new chapter of our lives, purchasing a
stunning 1956 Imperial, which I confidently told my wife would
"change our lives." Alongside this, I bought a Virago motorcycle,
creating unforgettable memories as she rode with me, and I committed
to taking up ballroom dancing, an activity I unexpectedly grew to
love.
A physician marveled at not only my remarkable medical
recovery but also my ability to hold onto everything—dreams,
activities, and relationships. Yet, the years ahead would reveal
greater truths and insights, affirming his earlier observations and
illuminating the profound journey that was just beginning for us.
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Records Had Been Destroyed |
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In December 2002, I
surprisingly accepted a promotion into Engineering at
Verizon after the Human Resources department moved out of
West Virginia. During a meeting, a higher-level Engineering
Manager inquired about my credentials in front of a large
group, which I found curious since Verizon already had my
records.
My response stunned him when I revealed I
possessed six Cisco Level Certifications, making me the top
candidate out of 35 applicants. However, it soon became
clear why he had asked; I was informed that all my corporate
records, which were termed untouchable across five states,
had been sent to Verizon Central Shredding instead of being
stored at Verizon Central Storage, resulting in their
Total Destruction. |
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Carbon Copies |
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Months later, I received a follow-up email, which was carbon
copied to about 30 management and non-management employees,
reiterating that all my corporate records had been
destroyed. This revelation meant that not only were my
credentials wiped from existence, but also the documentation
pertaining to my politically managed medical ordeals from
1999 was lost forever. The email served as a stark reminder
of how one's corporate life could be obliterated, years of
professional and personal history, leaving me both
bewildered and frustrated. |
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2002 Career-Wise & Privately |
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In December 2002, new entities and situations emerged that
operated in unprecedented ways. By 2004, my optimistic wife
suggested that I leverage the National attention I had
garnered for AVLIMITED in the past to undertake a
significant project for the State of West Virginia. Our
ambitious plan involved restoring vintage cars, which we
would showcase in our newly acquired large vintage vehicle
garage, along with our international travels and
connections. However, as neophytes in this venture, we were
unaware of the geopolitical complexities that would
eventually drive us to the brink amidst our unfolding
aspirations.
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Next:
The Christan Savant |
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